 Human relationships are amazingly complex. 
Take the short test and find out immediately what makes you tick in dating and relationships.

The beauty of attachment styles: They are not burned into our personality for all eternity, but every relationship experience and our handling of it can contribute to changing our attachment style.

Take the short test and find out immediately what makes you tick in dating and relationships.

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What's your attachment style?

It helps to talk to my partner in times of need

I usually discuss my problems and concerns with my partner

I don't feel comfortable opening up to my partner

I prefer not to show my partner how I feel in my core

I often worry that my partner doesn't really care about me

In a relationship, I worry that my partner doesn't care about me as much as I care about them

**#safe #free #comfortable**

You feel safe in your relationships and have no problem with being dependent to a certain extent. 

**You have great confidence and are proactive that the other person *WILL* be there for you *IF* you really need him or her.** It is easy for you to be an anchor in the relationship and to exude a sense of security in the process. You are in good company in the truest sense of the word: **Around 50-60% of the population have a similar attachment style as you.**

You have a solid base, but you probably know it yourself: Even with a secure attachment style, conflicts and injuries are inevitable. You probably already know the best ways to handle this: **self-reflection and openness.**

Secure

**#closeness #harmony #overthinker #othersfirst**


Your attachment style is geared towards **closeness and security**. That's great - in your partnership you give a lot and spread warmth and harmony. Familiarity and closeness are important to you - you love being close to your partner

Blind trust in your partner is difficult for you, **a little doubt like that gnaws at you sometimes**. Sometimes it can happen that you think that your loved one doesn't need you as much as you do. You are not alone with your attachment style: **Around 25% of the population have an attachment style similar to yours**.

Anxious

**#independent #facts #safedistance**


Your attachment style is more **autonomous**. You love your independence, you are independent and you are enough for yourself, you prefer to go through the world with your head held high.

But **if someone gets too close to you, it can happen that you withdraw**. After all, you don't want to run the risk of becoming dependent - that's why you prefer to keep your insides to yourself.  You're not alone in this: **around a quarter of the population have a similar attachment style to you.**

Avoidant

**#independent #passionate #HotAndCold #contradicting**

As it stands, your attachment style is geared towards **both closeness and autonomy**. You seek to be close to your counterpart and you can be very passionate about it, that is important to you.

**What is even more important to you: your independence**. It can feel strange to you to be dependent on others. But it can seem just as strange when someone else depends on you. This can be confusing for some people - First you come in hot, look for closeness, find it - and bang! you quickly run back to your hiding place. 

You are not alone with your attachment style: **Around 15% of the population have a similar attachment style to you.**

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Quiz: What's your attachment style?