Even healthy relationships can be exhausting - we need to talk to each other, listen to each other and respect each other to keep it working. This is the only way to have a respectful, loving and healthy relationship. These thirteen signs will tell you that you are in a healthy relationship. (Attention: This list is not weighted according to priorities!)

**1\. Respect**

You and your partner love and accept each other as you are - with all your quirks and faults!

**2\. Independence**

You give each other enough space to develop and respect each other. In doing so, you give each other the space you need.

**3\. Honesty**

You can be honest with each other without hurting each other. You also formulate criticism in such a way that you do not hurt each other, but give him or her the opportunity to grow from it.

**4\. Sex**

Even if things aren't as wild as they were in the first few weeks when you met and couldn't keep your hands off each other: How things are going in bed is often a good indicator of your relationship. And if things aren't going so well, you can talk about it! Good sex is definitely a sign of a healthy relationship.

A healthy relationship also means: Arguing properly!
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**5\. Culture of dispute**

It's not a bad thing that things go wrong. It depends on what happens afterwards. It is a sign of a healthy relationship if you sort out your problems with each other and soon get along again.

**6\. Equality**

Neither feels disadvantaged and has to do more than the other - be it in the household, at work or in the relationship. If you both feel equal, chances are good that you will have a healthy relationship.

**7\. Support**

You know what moves, frightens and delights your loved one. You support, protect and help him or her without being overbearing.

**8\. Perception**

You see, hear and feel your partner and vice versa. Only those who perceive the other person can have a healthy relationship in the long run!

**9\. Care**

You take care of each other - with kind words, gestures, tenderness and a little attention now and then. And when the other person is unwell, you are there for him or her - without losing yourselves in the process!

**10\. Safety**

You are at home in your relationship. You feel safe and secure there - and don't have to be afraid that something will happen to you.

**11\. Borders**

You respect your partner's boundaries and give each other the time you need. Because even if it works as a couple, each of you has to be able to develop yourself!

**12\. Responsibility**

You take responsibility - first of all for yourself and what you do, but also for your partner and the relationship. And if someone messes up, he or she also takes responsibility for it.

**13\. Fun**

People who don't take life so seriously usually live a little easier. This also and especially applies to relationships. As long as you can laugh together, have fun and sometimes do something crazy, everything can't be so gloomy!

You have the feeling that your relationship is out of control and that somehow nothing feels healthy? Then let's talk! Book a thirty-minute initial consultation with one of our coaches today!

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Love and relationship can also mean work - but work that is worthwhile. These things tell you that you're in a healthy relationship.

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Love: How to recognise that you are in a healthy relationship