A study showed that 86% of people who live in a partnership feel that an intact sex life is essential for the functioning of their relationship. What exactly satisfies us sexually and which aspects attract us is a matter of type and varies from person to person. While some prefer it wild and passionate, others prefer more tenderness and romance in bed. No matter what preferences you or your partner have, it is important that you feel seen and respected in it and thus can achieve sufficient sexual satisfaction.  

Take the short test and find out how you experience sexuality in your relationship and how satisfied you feel with it. 

For many people, the sexuality experienced in a partnership is an indicator of how intact it ultimately is. Therefore, it is important to work on it if necessary. 

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How do you experience sexuality in your partnership? 

My partner likes to experiment a lot in bed.

Sex always follows the same pattern in our relationship.

I feel how much my partner loves me when we have sex together. 

My partner is always open to trying new things sexually.

Sexuality is an important part of our relationship. 

When I sleep with my partner, it feels like we are one.

I cannot live out my sexual fantasies with my partner.

I feel during sex how familiar I am to my partner. 

I feel during sex that my partner shows me a lot of respect.

The way my partner and I meet in bed reflects our loving connection.

When I make love with my partner, my whole body feels touched. 

During sex with my partner I feel little appreciation.

#### The results indicate that you feel little satisfaction in your current relationship. What does this mean for you? 

Perhaps you have noticed more and more lately that you feel little or no satisfaction from your partner. It may also be that you are no longer as attracted to your partner as you used to be or that you have different expectations of your sex life. However, it may also be that in previous relationships you already found it difficult to let go in a sexual context and enjoy intimacy with your partner. 

*Since you scored low on this test, you may be wondering how to proceed with your relationship. 
Perhaps you have already read about our free initial consultation in the app. Here you can get to know our coaches and work with them on your relationship. The right coaching will help you take your sexual experience to the next level, stabilize your relationship, or even take it in a new direction.*

##### **Do you want to know more about the general satisfaction in your relationship? Then take our satisfaction test on our website or in the app.

###### The questionnaire for experienced sexuality in partnerships was developed by Jörn von Irmer 
###### von Irmer, J., & Kemper, C. J. (2011). Construct validity of a short version of the questionnaire for the experience of sexuality in close partnerships (FESP-K). Diagnostica, 57(1), 17-26. https://doi.org/10.1026/0012-1924/a000033

Low satisfaction

#### The results indicate that you experience a medium level of perceived satisfaction from your partner. What does this mean for you? 

Even if you love your partner and you are basically satisfied with your sexuality, it could still be that your inner desires and needs are not being heard enough for you.  Would you like more tenderness? Or perhaps a little more passion? Where are the challenges in your sex life that need to be overcome?

*You scored a medium score on your test, and you may now be asking yourself how to move forward with your relationship. 
You may have already read about our free initial consultation in the app. Here you can get to know our coaches and work with them on your relationship. The right coaching will help you experience more satisfaction in your partnership and further stabilize your relationship. But maybe you want to go new ways and you are still missing some support, then feel free to contact our coaches and get to know them.

##### **Do you want to know more about the general satisfaction in your relationship? Then take our satisfaction test on our website or in the app.

###### The questionnaire for experienced sexuality in partnerships was developed by Jörn von Irmer 
###### von Irmer, J., & Kemper, C. J. (2011). Construct validity of a short version of the questionnaire for the experience of sexuality in close partnerships (FESP-K). Diagnostica, 57(1), 17-26. https://doi.org/10.1026/0012-1924/a000033

Medium satisfaction

#### Your results indicate that you experience a high level of satisfaction from your partner. 

This is great news! 

Whether passionate, wild or rather tender and slow - you and your partner get along great in bed and you experience the satisfaction you desire. The fact that your sexual expectations but also your wishes and needs are seen and fulfilled speaks for a lot of familiarity between you and your partner.

*You have achieved a high score on your test, but what happens next?
If, despite your current perceived sexual satisfaction, you feel that you would like to talk about or work on your relationship, feel free to contact our coaches or book a free initial consultation for yourself. 
The right coaching will help you maintain your perceived sexual satisfaction and stabilize your relationship even further. Or maybe you want to explore new avenues and are still lacking a little support, then feel free to contact our coaches and get to know them.*

##### **Do you want to know more about the general satisfaction in your relationship? Then take our satisfaction test on our website or in the app.

###### The questionnaire for experienced sexuality in partnerships was developed by Jörn von Irmer 
###### von Irmer, J., & Kemper, C. J. (2011). Construct validity of a short version of the questionnaire for the experience of sexuality in close partnerships (FESP-K). Diagnostica, 57(1), 17-26. https://doi.org/10.1026/0012-1924/a000033

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Quiz: How do you experience sexuality in your partnership?